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Am I an employee of TalkToMe.com?
The site is only a venue for User listings.
TalkToMe acts only as an interface to facilitate communications initiated between Talkers and Callers. As a Talker, you are not an employee, agent, or contractor of TalkToMe, and you shall not represent that you are any of the foregoing. You are solely responsible for all equipment necessary to access and use the site and Talker Services, and for reporting and payment of all taxes associated with fees transferred to you by TalkToMe.
Are Calls recorded?
TalkToMe.com does not record your Calls; however, you can elect to do so in two ways:
Via The “Services” Drop Down
Simply click on the “Services” drop down in the top navigation bar, and toggle the “Record Calls” feature to “On.”

How to set your account to Record Calls from the TalkToMe.com top navigation bar.
Via “My Account”
Select “My Account” in the Main Menu drop down. “Recording Default Setting” should appear as the second to last option at bottom of the page; click “Save” after choosing your Recording option.

How to set your Recordings Default Settings in your Account Information.
One note: both you and the Caller must have this on for the Call to be recorded.
Are my profiles linked together on the site? Can the customers tell multiple profiles are all mine?
Your Profiles are not linked together on the site in the eyes of the customer, so you are welcome to have as many different personalities as you’d like and the Callers will not know you are the same person. However, when you are available on one Profile, you are available on all of your “Enabled” profiles—which is a maximum of 3 at a time.
When you receive a call from TalkToMe.com, you will receive a message with the profile number that is being called. If you listen to the complete message before pressing “1” you will be able to tell which Profile is being called.
If you are at your computer, the active phone call display will pop-up and list the Profile being called so you can press “1” to accept the call sooner.
Are the calls monitored?
We do not monitor calls. TalkToMe.com offers a connection service between Callers and Talkers by providing our software, but privacy is completely guaranteed.
Can I be featured on the front page?
Currently we do not have actual featured profiles. The profiles that are showing on the featured front page of the site are determined by an algorithm that takes into account when a talker logged in as available for calls, if they have a profile photo, if they are also available for webchat, how many stars they have for their rating, as well as how many reviews that they have received.
We may change the featured selection in the coming future, and if we do we will send out a Talker Update email with instructions on how to request being featured.
We do honor featured requests on our social media accounts, so please make sure you follow us on twitter @talktomecom and Facebook.com/talktomecom and reach out to our social media department and request that they feature your profile.
Can I have/sell nude photos?
Nudity is only allowed in Private Galleries and not as your Profile Photo, Profile Gallery, or Private Gallery covers.
Can my spouse / partner / girlfriend / boyfriend / friend / enemy join me as a couple on calls?
We do allow couples on our site!
You can create a Couple Profile within your account, by following the How do I create a Profile? steps.
Note: We will need ID verification for both people who will be taking calls.
Create A Talker Account
- Go to the TalkToMe homepage, TalkToMe.com.
- You should see an Account creation box at the right for Callers. At the bottom of this area you will see “Want to be a Talker? Click here.” Click this link.
- On the next page, click the purple button “Start Talking Now.”
- A “Become A Talker” registration form will appear that asks for basic signup information; fill in this form completely. (Keep in mind that you may wish to establish a dedicated e-mail address for your business.)
- Click the respective links to our “User Agreement,” “Terms and Conditions,” and “Privacy Policy” in order to read them.
- Then click on the box in front of these links in order to agree to each Policy. If you do not agree, you will not be allowed to create an account.
- Click the purple “Register” button.
Great! Now that you have established an account on TalkToMe.com, you will see a Welcome message just for you, including the options to either “Create my Profile Now” or “Not now, maybe later”—this second option allows you to explore site features before continuing with your Profile creation.
If you need help creating a Profile, you may use the Help page instructions here: How do I create a Profile?, or call Customer Service at 1-800-238-TALK.
Direct Connect Vs. Talk-Chat Lines Programs
A lot of Talkers ask what are the Talk-Chat Line and Direct Connect Programs?
Similarities
Both programs are in additional to the TalkToMe.com website, and the Callers are not aware of this website or your profiles.
Both programs allow additional income for traffic other than from the website; traffic that we have been servicing over our phone lines for over 20 years.
Differences
Talk-Chat Line
- You have to go to the Programs page on TalkToMe.com and click “CONNECT.” The system will call you and connect you to our virtual chat lines. Each time you want to connect to the Talk-Chat Line you need to repeat this process.
- Is a chat line where ladies call free and men pay to talk to these amateur ladies. When you connect from the programs page, you will be paid for your live 1on1 connections with caller’s based on the rate displayed when you entered the system. The pre-commission rate will be listed in the TC button in the navigation bar.
- Is an amateur line that men call to speak to ladies who are NOT being paid. They do not want phone sex, at least not immediately, so don’t come on too strong or you may prematurely lose your one-on-one connection with the Caller.
- Some callers may not want to connect one-on-one from the start so you can earn $0.20 for each message exchange with callers. If a talker sends a message, the caller replies – or vice versa – this is a message exchange, which accrues $0.20.
- Please note: If a caller sends you a message, and you respond with a connection request – or vice versa, this is not a message exchange and you will not receive the commission for a message exchange.
Direct Connect
- Also found on the Programs page in the Main Menu, it only requires you to enroll once. Simply go to the Programs page and check off the box to enroll in the program.
- Is for Callers who call one of our many 800 numbers looking for phone sex (such as 1-800-BIG-BOOBS). When the Caller on the line agrees to a connection, our system looks for Talkers who are enrolled in the program and currently available for calls, and calls the Talker directly for the connection. There is no need to remain on a line waiting for a Direct Connect call, you just have to have your profile available.
- Through Direct Connect, our current phone lines offer our callers the option to connect directly to a TalkToMe.com girl for $0.99 per minute. The talker will receive their normal commission on the $0.99 per minute billed for Direct Connect calls.
- There is no maximum Direct Connect earnings that you can earn in a 24 hour period, however many Talkers are enrolled in the program so depending on how many Talkers are available and how many calls are received, you may or may not receive Direct Connect calls every day.
- Sends Talkers calls from Callers who are already looking for phone sex. You can get right into it with the caller, and feel free to promote your TalkToMe.com Profile to the Caller at the end of the conversation as a way for the caller to contact you directly in the future.
Do Callers see my personal phone number when they dial the service?
No, a Caller will never see your personal number.
When a customer connects with you they will see 1-800-TALKTOME (825.58663), the same as the number you see when you receive a Call.
Do Callers see my personal phone number when we Sext?
No; Sexting with a customer is done completely anonymously, with random numbers assigned to both you and the Caller.
Do I have to take calls?
Of course not! You’re welcome to engage in any of the services individually (i.e. just Sexting) or a combination of your preferences (i.e. Sexting and Web Chat, etc.).
Does Talktome withhold Taxes from My Earnings?
Talktome.com sends 1099’s to all talkers who have received any payouts throughout the year.
1099 forms are sent via mail on or before January 31.
Talktome.com does NOT withhold taxes from Talker Payouts.
Please contact a tax professional if you require additional tax assistance.
If you need to update your mailing address please use the Contact Us option and select the subject: Payout Change Request Form
It will generally take 1 – 2 business days for our accounting department to make updates to your account information.
If you have any questions or concerns please do not hesitate to Contact Us.
Entering your Payment Information
Before you can get paid as a Talker from TalkToMe.com, you must enter your payment information.
Click the Menu button in the Navigation Bar at the top of the site.
Then select My Account Settings from the menu.
You will be taken to the Account Information page, where you can update your General Information, Change your PIN number, and enter your payout information.
Please note the system will allow you to enter your payment information when you create your account.
However, to make additional updates you will need to contact Talker Support at talkersupport@talktome.com.
You can also use the Contact Us option, and select the subject: Payout Change Request Form.
HotChat.com
HotChat.com is as easy to use as 1, 2, 3!
- Log into your TalkToMe.com
- Enter the Talk Chat line via the Program page.
- Log into HotChat.com for live calls, on-site messages and voicemail action!
When joining Talk-Chat line from the Programs page, you will now be asked to select which profile you want to use on the chatline.
The profile that you select, will be displayed on HotChat.com. That profile will show as On-Line for as long as you are in the Talk-Chat line. When you disconnect from the Talk-Chat line, your profile will still be shown on HotChat.com. Callers can send you messages when you are not on the Talk-Chat line.
You can select a disabled profile, so feel free to make a new profile just for your chat connections that will not impact your current TalkToMe.com characters.
Once you have connected with a profile on the Talk-Chat line, you will be able to edit that profile text, images, and interests by logging into your HotChat.com account, using your TalkToMe.com credentials.
To add or edit a profile photo, select the Actions menu for the specific profile you would like to add a Profile Photo to on your HotChat.com account dashboard.
Some important things to remember when using HotChat.com:
- All profiles for TalkToMe.com as well as HotChat.com must be created on TalkToMe.com to generate earnings.
- You will only generate earning on the Talk-Chat line by connecting from the Programs page on TalkToMe.com
- You can only have one enabled profile for HotChat.com
- The profile you select for the Talk-Chat line will have the same profile title on HotChat.com. However, the profile number will be different.
- You can only have one enabled profile for HotChat.com.
- All earnings from HotChat.com will reflect on your TalkToMe.com dashboard.
How can I tell which Profile a customer is calling?
If you have more than one active Profile you use regularly, we recommend setting up a “Profile Whisper” for each. A “Profile Whisper” allows you to record a personal greeting that’s played when you get a Call and helps you identify which one you’re taking the Call for.
To utilize this feature, access the “Profile Whisper” link in your Profile’s Related Shortcuts. When you click “Create/Change Profile Whisper,” the TalkToMe.com automated system will call you and record your personal greeting.
Note: Callers will not hear a “Profile Whisper.”
Keep in mind that is if you do not record a Profile Whisper, when you receive a call from TalkToMe.com you will receive a message with the Profile Number that is being called. If you listen to the complete message before pressing 1, you will be able to tell which Profile is being called.
If you are in front of your computer, the active phone call display will pop up and list the Profile being called, so that you can press 1 to accept the call sooner.
How do I add a Photo Gallery?
*Photo Criteria:*
We will not allow any of the following in any photos that are submitted; the content will be immediately rejected!
- No children
- No bestiality
- No scat
- No incest
- No rape or forced anything
Also note, the Gallery Cover Photo cannot be a nude photo because this is displayed to users. Though, Gallery Photos may contain nudity.
When we approve the photos if any of the photos contain nudity, we do approve them, but do not make them public.
How To Add A Gallery:
- Go to your Dashboard.
- Click on the Profile you want to add a Gallery to—located on the far left of the screen.
- Click the “Edit” button, located on the top right hand side of your Profile.
(You will see your Basic Information selected on the left hand bar menu.) - On the left hand bar menu, click “Galleries.”
You will see Galleries selected on the left hand bar menu with a message stating you have no Galleries. - Click the “+ Create Gallery” button, located on the top left hand side of the screen, below Galleries.
An overlay will appear that gives you basic information on the Gallery creation process. - Once you have read the information, click the “Go Create Your Gallery!” button, located on the bottom right hand side of the overlay.
Step 1—Add a Cover Photo:
From here, there are three ways to choose a Cover Photo for your Gallery and are just like how you would set your Profile Photo. Though there are a few more options with your Galleries: you can download it as a .zip file or delete it. Keep in mind, however, that you will not be able to remove a photo from the Gallery once it has been purchased by a customer.
Step 2—Provide Details about your Gallery:
- Enter a Title, Price, and Description.
- The minimum price of a gallery is $20.00 and is pre-populated. You can change the price of a gallery that you add.
- The “Title” and “Description” text you enter should be carefully thought out and written so that it will make a user want to purchase it. This text can be changed if you need to do so.
- Click the “Create Gallery” button.
- You will see another overlay that allows you to add photos to your Gallery in the same three ways you added the cover photo.
- Add your photos one at a time.
- Photos that you have uploaded to previous galleries can be added to newer galleries but it would be to your benefit to make new galleries with new photos. This will make users be more inclined to purchase new galleries from you which will earn you more money.
- You can move between the three ways to add photos after every photo you add to the gallery.
- As you add photos to your gallery thumbnails of the photos will be displayed for you under “New Gallery Photos” so you can see the photos as you add them.
- Click the “Save Gallery” button to save your Gallery.
- You will see an overview that states the name and description of your Gallery, pricing and sale information, and the photos you have chosen.
- To make any changes, click the “Edit” button.
- Click the “Save” button.
At this point, the Gallery you added will appear on the Galleries page but not appear on your Profile for users to see and purchase until it has been approved by our administrative staff. This can take up to 24 hours (denoted by the icon on your cover photo). E-mails are sent out when galleries are approved or rejected:
- E-mail subject for an approved gallery: Congratulations! Your Gallery has been approved.
- E-mail subject for a rejected gallery: Your recent Gallery submission requires attention.
Alternative Steps:
Add photos to your Gallery:
- Click the “Add Photos” button.
- Upload, choose, or take new photos as previously instructed.
- Click the “Save Gallery” button.
Change/remove the Cover Photo from your Gallery:
- Hover your mouse over the photo.
- You will see two options: Make Cover and Remove.
- Click “Make Cover” to change the Cover Photo for your Gallery.
- Click on “Remove” to delete the photo from the Gallery.
These photos will no longer be in your Gallery, but will be available in “Your Photos” for use at another time.
Although your Galleries may contain more risqué photos, the Cover Photo for each will need to follow the same guidelines as your Profile Picture.
Please review section 24 of our Terms and Conditions to view our photo policy.
How do I add a Schedule?
Complete a schedule of dates and times that will appear on your profile letting people know when you are available for phone calls and/or chat. Keep in mind that you will be required to stick to your schedule or change it (you can change your schedule at any time).
Step 1—Set your Time Zone:
The drop menu displays time zones for the continental United States, Hawaii, and Alaska.
Step 2: Place a check in the box next to the day of the week you will be available.
Initially the hours are set to 12:00 AM—12:00 AM. Under “Set Schedule” use your mouse pointer to move the left and right slider buttons—one at a time—to the specific start and stop times you will be available for the day you selected.
Place your mouse pointer over the slider button and left click and hold to move the slider button. As you do this you will see the time change.
The left slider button is the “Start” time and the right slider button is the “Stop” time.
How do I add my phone number?
To add your phone number, please log in to your account and select “My Phone Number” from the Main Menu.
Enter your 10-digit phone number. Then click the ‘Next Step‘ button.
The next screen will display an option to Send Code, if you click this button, you are attempting to verify for phone calls and SMS.
If you can’t receive text, please click on the wording, “I can’t receive texts…”
If you choose to verify your phone number for calls and SMS, click the “Send Code” button, and then enter the code that was sent to your phone and click Verify Code.
If you choose to verify your phone number for calls only, you should click “I can’t receive texts…” and then click Call Me.
You will receive a call from our system when prompted enter the code that will appear on your computer screen.
If you would like to edit a verified number on your account, please log on and select “My Phone Number” from the Main Menu and your number will be displayed.
Select Edit My Numbers and then select Edit on the row that contains the verified phone number you would like to adjust. You will have options for Calls only, Text only or both options. Please select the option that is right for you.
You can edit and add numbers by using the My Phone Numbers option at any time.
How do I change my password?
Changing your password is easy! Just go to “Change Password” under Main Menu, then fill out the spaces provided for Current and New passwords.
How do I create a Profile?
If you are newly registered as a Talker you’ll need to create a Profile. A Profile is how visitors to our site will find you and is required for all talkers.
Your Profile (or Listing) will be used by the Callers—your customers—to find YOU on TalkToMe.com. The more pertinent information you put in your Profile, the more likely callers with similar interests will find you.
Here are the steps to create a Profile:
If you are newly registered you will create your first profile as part of the registration process. If you do not want to create a profile at that time, just click the “Close” button on the “Create a Profile” modal. When you next logon to the site, a modal will display so you can create a Profile. Click the “Create My Profile Now” button. The “Create a Profile” modal will be displayed.
Step 1—General Information:
Create your Profile Title, Headline, and Description; then choose the Gender and Orientation of your Profile.
The information you enter for Title, Headline, Description, Gender, and Orientation should reflect what persona you are trying to portray in the profile. Make the Title, Headline, and Description as interesting as possible so visitors will want to call you to help increase your business. The Description can be up to 2,000 characters. You may want to compose the Description in a word processing program first and spell check it, then copy/paste it to the Description data collection box.
- Your Profile Title cannot be changed, so take your time in deciding on your Title, and make it something you think will attract the most Callers.
- If you have to change your Profile Title or Gender, you will need to create a new profile. Please be careful you are selecting the correct information.
- Click the green button “Save & Continue.”
Step 2—Category:
Select up to 3 categories that best fit your Profile. This is one of the ways visitors will find you.
- When choosing your Profile and Category, keep in mind the type of character you are going to portray.
Step 3—Spoken Languages:
Select the language(s) that you speak.
- Bilingual Callers will enjoy conversing with someone who speaks in their native tongue. If you are able to fluently converse in a foreign language please share that with your customers.
Step 4—Appearance:
Appearance entries for your Profile persona are used in the search and will help visitors find your profile.
- This will give the caller an opportunity to choose YOU based on your distinctive description.
Step 5—Telephone Pricing:
Set your Pay Per Minute Rate here for the calls you will receive. You can also create flat rate packages and introductory offers. After you have created your Profile check out the “My Rates” page.
Step 6—My Roles are… :
Choose 3 to 5 Roles that fit your Profile persona. Click on the “Show More” button to see more options.
- These Roles describe the things you may wish to include in your conversation for your Callers, which may be implicit or explicit. This is another way that the Callers can narrow their search and find you.
Step 7—I am into… :
Choose 3 to 5 special Interests that fit your Profile persona. These help develop repeat callers and longer call duration.
- These Interests describe the things you may wish to include in your conversation for your Callers, which may be implicit or explicit. This is another way that the Callers can narrow their search and find you.
Step 8—My Secrets are … :
Selecting secrets is optional.
- These Fetishes show your Callers special interests that you are willing to explore or execute while in conversation with him. This is yet another way that the Callers can narrow their search and find YOU.
Step 9—Click the green “Create My Profile!” button:
Your Profile will be activated soon! While you wait you can:
Set Profile Picture Edit My Profile
Manage My Rates Close Window
You have now completed your profile! Need to make changes?
To Make Changes:
- Click on the Profile you want to Edit, located on the far left of the screen.
- Click the “Edit” button, located on the top right hand side of your Profile.
To Create an Additional Profile:
- Go to your Dashboard.
Click the “Create a Profile” button on the far left, below your existing Profile(s) and follow the previous instructions.
How do I delete a Message?
If you would like to delete any Message, simply click the checkbox beside the username. Then click on the drop-down option that appears next to the words “With selected:” which appears at the end of your Message list, and select “Delete.” This moves the item(s) to your Trash.
In Trash, you have the options to “Undelete” or “Permanently Remove” any message with the same process.
How do I earn using the Talk-Chat Lines Program?
When you connect to our Talk-Chat line from the programs page, you will be paid for your live 1on1 connections with caller’s based on the rate displayed when you entered the system.
The pre-commission rate will be listed in the TC button in the navigation bar.

When you connect to the Talk-Chat Line, you will record a voice greeting. Callers can browse the voice greetings and leave you a message back, or request to chat live one-on-one.
Important Notes:
- You will earn the commission listed when you enter the system for your one-on-one connection time with callers on the Chat Line.
- Some callers do not want to connect one-on-one from the start, so you earn $.0.20 for each message exchange with callers. (Please note: If a caller sends you a message, and you respond with a connection request – or vice versa, this is not a message exchange and you will not receive the commission for a message exchange.)
- The Callers on the virtual chat line are not aware of TalkToMe.com, or that you are not an amateur girl who is just calling the line for fun and someone to chat with, so don’t come off to strong or push your TalkToMe.com Profile right away, that may cause the Caller to disconnect and try to connect with another lady on the line.
How do I earn with the Recording calls feature?
The Recording Calls feature allows Callers to purchase their favorite calls. This feature provides a new, exciting experience for Callers and a great financial opportunity for Talkers.
Callers who opt into the recording program are able to purchase conversations they have with Talkers. We have had many Caller inquiries for this feature.
Pricing
Talkers will receive their normal commission of the amount that the Caller pays for the recording. Only the Caller can purchase their calls.
The pricing structure for the recordings is 25% of the total amount the Caller spent on the call. There is $3.99 minimum, and the maximum rate is $19.99 for call recordings.
Can I opt out of having my calls recorded?
Talkers and Callers can set their recording preferences. Click the Main Menu and then click My Account; scroll to the Recordings Setting section and select your preferences.
Talkers can also set their recording preferences on the menu bar by clicking the Availability Toggle button.
The Caller and the Talker must both opt in to having their calls recorded in order for the call to be recorded and become available for the Caller to purchase.
In addition, only calls that originate from the click-to-call box on the website will be recorded, if the call is placed from 800-TALKTOME (800-825-5866) the call will not be recorded.
Callers also have the ability to set their recording preference by call. In the Caller’s click-to-call box, Callers can mark the check box to record their calls on a call-by-call basis. This method will work as long as the Talker has also opted in to allow call recording.
How do I edit my Profile?
- Go to your Profile Dashboard.
- Click on the Profile you want to edit, located on the far left of the screen.
- Click the “Edit” button, located on the top right hand side of your Profile.

You will see the following headings:
Profile Title: Place your cursor inside the box and click. You will recive a message to contact Our Support staff.
Profile Headline: Place your cursor inside the box and change your Profile Headline.
Profile Description: Place your cursor inside the box and change your Profile Description.
Gender: You cannot change your gender. You will need to create an entirely new profile with the correct gender.
Orientation: *NOTE* When you change your orientation it will reset the entries for Roles, I Am Into, and Fetishes and you will have to re-select entries for these three attribute entries.
Appearance: To change your Appearance entries, click the EDIT link.
Roles: To change your Roles entries, click the EDIT link.
I Am Into: To change your I Am Into entries, click the EDIT link.
Fetishes: To change your Fetishes entries, click the EDIT link.
Languages: To change your Languages entries, click the EDIT link.
Remember to click the “Save Changes” button after you make any changes.
Note: If the Profile Title and Gender are incorrect on your Profile, you can hide your profile so it will not be visible on TalkToMe.com.
How do I get more exposure?
We are doing substantial advertising both on- and offline, but you can also promote your own Profile. Your success on TalkToMe.com depends on several factors:
- How you market yourself on our site and others.
- Consider phone sex directories to link back to your listing(s), social media accounts, craigslist ads, etc.
- How much time you spend updating your listing.
- Is your Profile filled out completely and with accurate, detailed information? What products do you have available? Do you have a custom HTML page? Are your social media profiles listed on your account so users have multiple ways to get in touch with you?
- How much effort you spend connecting with Callers to build a base of loyal, paying customers.
- This refers somewhat back to the marketing listed in #1, but you should also consider our Direct Connect and Talk-Chat Line Programs.
- You may also want to consider researching a bit about our Affiliate Program as another means of earning: https://www.talktome.com/news/do-you-have-an-affiliatereferral-program/.
- How motivated you are to learn new features and experiment with creative ways to engage callers.
- Again, this refers somewhat back to your listing features in #2. Are you available via all the methods of connection we have: Calls, Text, Webchat, Emails, WebCams? Have you set up a Voice Greeting? Are you utilizing your Wall Posts?
You can also find promotional tools to advertise your Profile directly through your social media and blogging accounts by selecting “Promotional Tools” in your Profile Dashboard. (You can get to the Profile Dashboard by logging into your Talker account and selecting the Profile on the left hand side.)
There are also additional training and marketing ideas on phonesexu.com.
How do I get my Profile featured on the front page?
Our main page’s “Featured” listings are currently determined using an algorithm which takes into account multiple factors. We consistently work on updating this algorithm to be the best possible display for our customer base, so this could change in the future.
More Calls Now!
In order to get more calls immediately, you should enroll in our Direct Connect program. You can read about it by going to “Programs” in the “Main Menu.” When you enable the Program, you will receive calls from our system from Callers who are not familiar with the TalkToMe.com website at all. These callers are calling a number of our 800 phone lines and selecting the amateur girls option. For any Direct Connect calls you receive, you will be paid your 35% commission on a $.99/min rate.
We are also working on getting the Direct Connect calls to be included in the rating system so our “Featured” algorithm can be more accurate.
Marketing Tip
If you would like to be featured on our social media profiles, feel free to email talkersupport@talktome.com or tweet us @talktomecom.
How Do I Make Myself available when using the Mobile Site?
Connect with your callers on the go!
To make yourself available for calls and other features such as sexting, and web chat, log into the mobile site.
Once you are logged in, click on the three horizontal lines in the upper right-hand corner. This will take you to the Main Menu.
In the upper right corner under your email address, there is a list of services.

There is an “x” in a red circle next to each service listed. Click on the “x” next to the service that you would like to make yourself available for and “x” will change to a check mark.


We also offer two alternative options for making yourself “Available” or “Unavailable:”
- via text
- via phone
Via Text
To control your services via text, simply reply to any TalkToMe Sext conversation on your phone with the following:
| Available | Unavailable |
| #online | #offline |
| #online phone | #offline phone |
| #online sms | #offline sms |
Via Phone
To control your services via phone, simply dial 1-800-TALKTOME and follow the prompts to use your “Dial-In Credentials” (located at the bottom of the Main Menu any time you are signed into your Account).

Information needed to log into your TalkToMe.com Account via our automated phone system.
How do I make myself “Available?”
To start connecting with Callers, simply click on the “Services” drop down in the top navigation bar. Then click the “Unavailable” link beside any method you want to become “Available” for.

The “Services” drop down menu for TalkToMe.com.
We also offer two alternative options for making yourself “Available” or “Unavailable:”
- via text
- via phone
Via Text
To control your services via text, simply reply to any TalkToMe Sext conversation on your phone with the following:
|
Available |
Unavailable |
|
#online |
#offline |
|
#online phone |
#offline phone |
| #online sms |
#offline sms |
Via Phone
To control your services via phone, simply dial 1-800-TALKTOME and follow the prompts to use your “Dial-In Credentials” (located at the bottom of the Main Menu any time you are signed into your Account).

Information needed to log into your TalkToMe.com Account via our automated phone system.
How do I manage My Contacts (Block, Favorite, etc.)?
Here are some of the most frequently used “My Contacts” options:
Contacts: This displays Talkers you’ve had contacted with on the phone or on the site. It’s automatically generated and maintained for you. If you would like to remove someone, just click on the ‘Remove’ option. If you have contact with them again, they will automatically reappear on your contacts list.
Favorites: This displays Talkers who you have made as Favorites. To toggle this list, simply click on the “Heart ” icon next to each contact . When it’s red, it’s a favorite!
Blocked: This displays Talkers who you have blocked from contacting you. You can block Talkers from contacting you by clicking the “Block” icon. When it’s red, it’s blocked! Click it again, and the block will removed.
How do I manage My Rates?
To change the rates for your individual profiles, select “Account Dashboard” from the Main Menu and then select the profile from the left side of the page.
Under “Profile Related Shortcuts” in the profile dashboard, select “My Rates”.
On the “My Rates” page there are tabs for Pay Per Minute, Flat Rate Packages and Webcam rates.
How To Change Your Pay Per Minute (PPM) Rate:
*Keep in mind that it is not a good idea to change this rate too often, as it may frustrate your customers.
- Place your cursor in the “Customer Price” box.
- Key your new PPM rate.
- Click the “Save!” button.
How to offer your customers a discount on this page:
- Click the checkbox next to “Yes, I would like to offer a special deal to my first-time callers.”
- Use the drop down menu to select either “First 5 minutes,” “First 10 minutes,” “First 15 minutes,” or “First 20 minutes.”
- Key your offer rate.
- Click the “Save!” button.
How to Offer Flat Rate Packages (FRP):
*A Flat Rate Package is a good introductory package for new Callers, as they usually are sold at a lower rate than your PPM calls. For example, you can offer a 10 minute FRP for $9.99, which is the equivalent of a $0.99 PPM rate.
The “Flat Rate Packages” page is the tab next to “Pay Per Minute;” here you will see various packages you can sell to your customers. A Flat Rate Package expires once the call is concluded. This package has a set price with a set threshold; different from PPM. The customer will pay for the call, with a predetermined number of minutes. While on a FRP call, if the customer hangs up before the minutes are used, s/he will not receive a refund or be able to use the remaining minutes at a later time.
- Click on the “Flat Rate Package” tab.
- Place your cursor in the Flat Rate box on the same line for the number of minutes you want to offer in the package.
- Key your new FRP price.
- Click the “Save!” button.
How to change your Video Call Pay Per Minute rate
*Here you will set a PPM rate for your Video Call. We recommend that this rate be higher than your regular PPM rate, as it is an enhanced service.
- Click on the “Video Call” and “Video call 1way tab.
- Place you cursor in the Customer Price box.
- Type you new Video PPM rate.
- Click the “Save!” button
How do I set a Profile Photo?
Here are the steps to set a Profile photo:
- Go to your Profile Dashboard.
- Click on the Profile you want to set your Profile Photo for (located on the far left of the screen).
- On the Profile page you selected, click “Profile Photo.”
- If you have a current Profile photo it will be displayed.
- Take a moment to review our Image Policy by clicking the link; please read our Image Policy.
- Click the “Change / Upload Photo” graphic.
- An Upload Photos overlay will appear on your screen. You will not be able to perform any other action besides choosing a photo, unless you close this window first.
There are two ways to choose a photo/image for your profile:
To upload a photo from your computer:
- Click the “Click here to upload your image” graphic.
- Choose the folder on your computer where your photo is saved.
- Choose the file for your photo.
- Click “Open.”
*You may only upload .jpeg, .gif, & .png files with a maximum file size of 5 MB. If your file type is not supported, you will see an error message.
To choose a photo you have already uploaded:
- Click the “Your Photos” tab on the top right.
- Choose the photo you would like for your Profile Photo.
If you have successfully chosen a photo, you will see a message that your photo is pending approval and see it as Pending on the change Profile Photo page.
How do I set my Notification Preferences?
Choose how you are contacted through the “Preferences” option under the Main Menu.

Messaging options for TalkToMe.com’s Notification Preferences.
You can opt in for TalkToMe.com in-site messages, personal emails, or SMS notifications.
How do I set up my Payout Information?
You can set your Payout Information by selecting “My Account” from the Main Menu. There you can select your country and the payout option available to that region. You can then enter the necessary information.

For your account security as soon as you enter your payout information and click the Save button at the bottom of the page this section of your account will be locked.
If you need to make changes to your payment information you will need to complete and return this document to talkersupport@talktome.com or via fax (1-215-689-3812) so that we can assist you with updating your information.
Please note: Whenever a request is made to change or update payout information in any way, to ensure future payouts aren’t processed incorrectly, the account payout status will be disabled.
It will generally take 1 – 2 business days for our accounting department to make updates to your account information.
Please note: We cannot guarantee that payout information will be updated in time for the payout to be processed if the Change of Payout request is submitted after 3 PM Eastern time on Monday.
If the form is not returned (or complete), we will be unable to process any additional payouts to your account.
If you’re unable to fill out the form, please use the Contact Us option while you are logged into the site and select the subject: Payout Change Request Form
How do I update my phone number(s)?
To update your phone number, please log in to your account and select “My Phone Number” from the Main Menu.
- You will see a “My Phone Number” overlay with your established phone number(s) listed.
- Click the “Add Number” button.
- Enter the 10 digit Phone Number, area code first.
- Then click the ‘Next Step‘ button.
The next screen will display an option to Send Code, if you click this button, you are attempting to verify for phone calls and SMS.
If you can’t receive text, please click on the wording, “I can’t receive texts…”
If you choose to verify your phone number for calls and SMS, click the “Send Code” button, and then enter the code that was sent to your phone and click Verify Code.
If you choose to verify your phone number for calls only, you should click “I can’t receive texts…” and then click Call Me.
You will receive a call from our system when prompted enter the code that will appear on your computer screen.
How do I utilize Wall Posts?
Wall Posts are a quick and easy way to potentially attract customers. Your posts can be teasing questions, flirty blurbs, or all out stories with a cliffhanger ending—anything to make your customers want to call you.
To create a Wall Post:
- Go to your Dashboard.
- Click on the Profile where you want to create a Wall Post.
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- Click the “Wall Posts” link at the bottom of the page.
- Click inside the box “What’s on your mind?”
Then:
- Type your Wall Post.
- Click the “Post to Wall” button.
You will see all of your posts directly below the box.
To delete a post:
- Click the “X Delete” button.
How do I verify my account? Why do you need a copy of my ID?
When you login to your account, you are taken to your account dashboard. You will see a yellow notice that says “verify your private account information”. When you click on the “Do This” button it will take you to another page where you must upload an image of yourself holding your photo identification.
We need to verify your identity to remain positive that our services are provided and available to only adults over the age of 18.
How do I verify my phone number?
Once registered as a Talker and logged on to the site, you will be on the “Dashboard” page.
*Note: You can verify your phone number via phone or SMS.
SMS Verification
Verifying your number via SMS verifies it for phone calls as well as sexting.
Enter your 10-digit phone number. Then click the ‘Next Step‘ button.
The next screen will display an option to Send Code, if you click this button, you are attempting to verify for phone calls and SMS.
If you choose to verify your phone number for calls and SMS, click the “Send Code” button, and then enter the code that was sent to your phone and click Verify Code.
Phone Call Verification
Verifying via the phone will only verify your number for phone calls.
Enter your 10-digit phone number. Then click the ‘Next Step‘ button.
On the next screen under the Send Code button, click the words “I can’t receive texts…” and then click Call Me.
You will receive a call from our system and when prompted you should enter the code that will appear on your computer screen.
You can edit and add numbers by using the My Phone Numbers option at any time.
How do I verify my Private Account Information?
Once you are registered as a Talker and logged into the site, you will be on the “Account Dashboard” page. Here you will see “Verify your private account information.” Click the DO THIS button.
ID Verification
The verification process requires that you upload an image of you while holding your photo identification that clearly shows your birth date. Please save the picture of your personal ID* to your computer before proceeding.
- Click the “Click here to select your scanned ID” button.
- Choose the folder on your computer where your ID is stored.
- Click on your ID file.
- Click the “Open” button.
- Click the “Upload My ID” button.
*Your personal ID can be your Driver’s License with photo, State ID with photo, or a Passport with photo.
Please note: After your ID is uploaded it may take several business days for your ID to be approved.
How long does it take for my Profile Title, Profile Photos, Gallery Photos, etc., to be approved?
Your Profile text, images, and products will all be approved within 24 hours.
Note: In order for your Profile items to go through the approval process, your account must first be ID verified and you must have a verified phone number.
How many profiles can I have?
You can have 10 characters/profiles, but only 3 profiles can be enabled and live on the site at a time.
The callers do not see any connection between your profiles, so you are welcome to have as many different personalities that you would like to have and the callers will not know you are the same person.
How many Profiles/Characters can I have?
You can have 10 characters/profiles; however, only 3 profiles can be active on the site at a time.
You can enable/disable your profiles at any time on the account dashboard in the section for the specific profile.
How much can I charge for a Message?
You can charge a maximum of $5 for on-site Messages sent with or without attachments. The initial on-site Message from a caller to you is of no cost, therefore no earnings will be generated.
Note: If you want to attach an image/multimedia file that has previously been approved for your account, the attachment will be sent immediately; if you attach a new file, the attachment will have to be approved before the Caller can see it.
How much can I charge for Sexts?
Sext messages with text only are a flat-fee of $0.50, which cannot be increased.
The initial sext (text) contact from a caller to you is of no cost, therefore no earnings will be generated.
How much can I charge for Web Chat?
Please note that the Web Chat Feature is a Pay Per Minute option.
When a caller starts a chat with you, you will receive earnings per minute for your chat.
To set your rate, from the Account Dashboard, choose the profile that you would like to set your rate for then click the More button and select Profile Shortcuts > My Rates from the menu. You will be taken to the rates page.
Click the Chat Tab.

Set your rate (Price Range is $0.00 – $2.99) then click Save.
You can also set Flat Rate Package rates for web chat (The minimum and maximum dollar amounts allowed for each minute package will be displayed the under box where you would enter the rate.)
The paid commission for Web Chats is 50% (fifty percent).
You can make yourself available to receive a web chat at any time by toggling your availability at the top of our site.
On your profile the caller can select “Realtime web chat” and you will be prompted to accept the chat request with the caller within 60 seconds of the request.
You can find transcripts of your individual web chats in the message center.

***Please note that due to the changes we have made changes to our web chat feature, we have increased the size of the chat window, and have disabled incoming calls and chats until your chat session is over.***
In addition, if a talker misses a webchat the system will automatically make the profiles unavailable for web chat.
Please be aware that webchat was enhanced with a new feature.
Callers can now request to call you during chats!
This feature can be enabled on the programs page.
Once you have enabled it then callers can request a call during an ongoing webchat.
This will call you on the phone and the caller will hear you through their web browser. The caller will not be on the phone line, and will still be able to type.
How much can I charge per minute?
The maximum you can charge for minute is $2.99.
If you have an argument to charge more, please do so via email and we will review the request; if approved, we will increase your rate.
How to Add Push Notifications to Your TalkToMe.com Talker Account for Live Cam Calls
To use the new live cam feature on TalkToMe.com, you must have at least one push notification device added to your Talker account. Push notifications alert you instantly when you receive a live cam call request, so you don’t miss opportunities to connect with Members.
Follow these steps to set up push notifications on your devices.
Step-by-Step Instructions
1. Log in to Your Talker Account
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Go to TalkToMe.com and log in as a Talker.
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Open the Main Menu.
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Click Notifications.
2. Check Your Existing Push Devices
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Under the Email Notifications section, you’ll see a list of any devices that are already set up for push notifications.
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If you already have at least one device listed, you’re good to go for cams.
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If no devices are listed, you’ll need to add one before you can go available for live cams.
3. Add a New Device
To add a new device:
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Make sure you’re logged into your Talker account on the device you want to receive push notifications on.
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Open the browser you want to use for notifications (for example, Chrome on Android or Safari on Mac).
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Go back to Notifications → Email Notifications.
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Click “Add This Device.”
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Follow any browser prompts to allow notifications.
4. Test the Push Notification
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Once the device has been added, click “Send a Test Notification” to confirm it’s working.
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You should receive a push alert on that device almost instantly.
5. Repeat for Every Device You Use
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If you want push notifications on multiple devices (like your phone, tablet, and computer), repeat the steps above on each one.
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You must be logged in on each device and browser to add it.
Important Notes
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iOS Push Notification Limitations:
Push notifications from websites may not always work reliably on iPhones and iPads due to Apple’s system limitations. -
SMS Backup:
To ensure you don’t miss incoming cam calls, TalkToMe.com also sends an SMS text notification whenever you receive a live cam request. This is a backup in case iOS push notifications don’t arrive.
Tips for Success
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Keep your browser updated to the latest version for the best push notification support.
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Make sure notifications for the browser itself are allowed in your device’s system settings.
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If you’re not receiving notifications after setup, try removing and re-adding the device.
How to Go Invisible, Enable Profiles & Toggle Your Availability
The way you make your profiles visible and available to your contacts has changed.
On/Offline
If you want to show up as online to contacts you will need to toggle the Show Offline button to Off.
You can also change your online status by clicking the Ghost in the top left of the Account DashBoard. When your profile is set to invisible the ghost will turn pink.
Disable/Enable Profiles
When a profile is disabled, it will not be able to be available for any of the Services. You can have 3 profiles enabled on the site at any time, however, you can also create additional profiles. You can enable/disable your profiles at any time.
To enable a profile, while logged in and on the Account Dashboard, click the Disabled Tab.
All of your disabled profiles will be displayed on this tab.
Click the button with the green dot that says Enable to change the Active.
The profile will be removed from the disabled tab and moved to your active profiles.
Toggle Your Availability
To make your enabled profiles available for services (ex. Accepting phone calls), please log into the site.
Go to the Navigation bar at the top of the web page where you will see your current earnings as indicated with the dollar sign, click on that box next to the downward pointing arrow.
You will see a list of all of the Services. You can toggle your availability from this drop-down list. Just click the ON button for the specific service. When the ON button turns pink your are you are logged into that Service.
You can also change your availability for services by clicking the specific service icon located at the top of the Account Dashboard.
We offer two alternative options for making yourself “Available” or “Unavailable”:
- via Tex
- via Phone
Via Text
To control your services via text, simply reply to any TalkToMe Sext conversation on your phone with the following:
| Available | Unavailable |
| #online | #offline |
| #online phone | #offline phone |
| #online sms | #offline sms |
Via Phone
To control your services via phone, simply dial 1-800-TALKTOME and follow the prompts to use your “Dial-In Credentials” (visible when you click the Pink 1-800-TALKTOME sign in the black navigation bar at the top of the site when you are signed into your account).
How to Use Live Cams as a Talker on TalkToMe.com
Live cams on TalkToMe.com let you connect with Members face-to-face through two-way video calls or one-way “Voyeur” calls.
This guide explains everything you need to know to set up your cam, get notified of calls, and manage your live sessions successfully.
Step 1: Make Sure You’re Set Up for Cams
To go available for live cam calls, you must have all of the following ready:
- Camera and Microphone Enabled:
Your camera and mic must be enabled in the browser you’re currently using.
See our browser setup guides for step-by-step instructions:
Chrome
Chrome on Android
Safari
Safari on iPhones and iPads
Firefox
Firefox on Android
Microsoft Edge
Samsung Internet on Android - Push Notifications Added:
You must have at least one device set up for push notifications under Menu → Notifications → Email Notifications.- Push notifications alert you instantly when a caller requests a video call.
- You don’t need to sit at your desktop waiting for calls; just respond to notifications.
- For instructions on how to add Push Notifications, click here.
- If you are on an iOS device, push notifications are not reliable. You should select the SMS option from the “Video Calls Settings Page”.
- Set Your Cam Prices:
You only need to set rates for the type of video calls you want to take.- Two-Way Video Calls: Both you and the caller are on camera.
- One-Way Voyeur Calls: Only the callers are on camera.
Step 2: Going Available for Cams
Once you’ve completed the steps above:
- Switch your status to “Available for Cams.” by clicking the icons at the top of your dashboard.
- The video camera icon is for two-way Video calls, and the eye icon is for one-way Voyeur calls (only the caller is visible on camera).
- Your profile will now display a “Video Call with Me” button for Callers to request a live cam session.
Step 3: Receiving a Cam Call
- When a Caller requests a video call, you’ll get a site notification or an SMS notification (set this up in the Video Call Settings page. iOS users should always select SMS notifications).
- You do not need to be sitting at your browser waiting for calls—just respond when you get notified.
Step 4: Joining the Call
- Click on the notification to join the live cam session. You will have 90 seconds to accept and join the Video Call from the time the notification is sent.
- For Two-Way Video Calls: Your camera and microphone will automatically turn on as soon as you join. You will be unable to turn off your camera during a video call, but the caller can choose to share or hide their camera.
- For Voyeur (One-Way) Calls: Your camera will be off, but your microphone will be on. The caller’s camera will be on, but they can turn it off on their end as well. If the caller turns off their camera, the call will become a voice-only call.
Note: You can’t manually turn off your camera or microphone during a regular two-way video call. If you want to leave the call, you’ll need to click “End Call.”
Step 5: Ending the Call
- If possible, let the Caller end the session themselves.
- If you need to end the call, click “End Call” on your screen.
Tips for Success
- Test your camera, microphone, and push notifications before going available.
- Be prompt when responding to incoming cam requests to keep your availability rating high.
- Make sure your internet connection is stable to avoid interruptions.
I am not getting any calls, how do I get more exposure?
You can find some promotional tools to advertise your profile directly through your social media and blogging accounts by selecting “promotional tools” that is in the profile dashboard. You can get to the profile dashboard by logging into your talker account and selecting the profile on the left-hand side.
We also offer additional training and marketing ideas on phonesexu.com
Another way to increase callers to your profile is to enroll in our programs. In the main menu, select programs and you can read about the programs that we currently offer.
Talk-Chat Lines
When you connect via the “Programs” page to our Talk-Chat line, we will pay the current commission listed at the top of the page for the first 150 minutes per day of live one on one connections on the line.
Direct Connect
If you are not already enrolled, you should do so! The Direct Connect program connects you to callers who are not yet familiar with TalkTome.com. You will receive your normal commission off of these $0.99 per minute calls ($0.35/min) and you can also refer these callers to your profile on TalkToMe.com to purchase your galleries, view your public photos, leave you a tip or call you back directly in the future.
I am not happy with the initial cost I put on my Gallery Photos, can I change the cost?
In order to change the price on your Gallery, you should delete your current Gallery and create a new one with the higher price.
You can do this by:
- Going into your Galleries page and clicking on the “Delete” button next to the Gallery.
- After it is deleted, you can click on the “Create a Gallery” button and create a new one.
You will not need to re-upload the images; when you are in the Gallery wizard, select “Your Photos” and you can quickly re-add them to the new Gallery.
I didn’t receive my payout!
- Please verify that the Payee name in “My Account” matches the SSN/Tax ID that you have entered.
- Next, verify:
- That your address is correct if you selected a check payout.
- For Direct Deposit, make sure your bank and routing numbers are correct.
If you selected Direct Deposit as your payout option, you should expect to see the payment reflected in your account on Friday or Saturday, though it can take an extra business day or two to arrive if there is a holiday or any unforeseen technical issue.
Our direct deposit will appear on your statement as ACH Dep: CS LLC CO: CS LLC.
If, by close of business the following Monday, you still have not received your payout, please e-mail us with as much information as possible about the missing payout. We can then initiate an investigation for you. We are unable to open an investigation for your missing payment prior to Monday.
Payouts by Checks may take longer to receive depending on the postal mail system. So, we are unable to open an investigation for your missing payment prior to 10 business days from the original payout date.
If, after 10 business days you have not received your check, please e-mail us with as much information as possible about the missing payout. We will provide you with a form that must be completed before we can investigate the missing check payout.
Other payout options, if the information is correct, verify that it has been 3 business days since the payout was processed; if so, email talkersupport@talktome.com with as much information as possible about the missing payout.
You can review your payout information by selecting “My Account” from the main menu.
Please contact us if you would like to make any adjustments to your payout information.
I want to delete one of my Profiles!
If you have a Profile that you no longer plan on using, send an email to talkersupport@talktome.com with the Profile Title you wish to delete.
Our Customer Service Department will delete the profile from your account. Please be aware, deleted profiles cannot be recovered, so only use this option if you absolutely no longer which to use the profile. If you plan on using the profile again in the future, please use the alternative “Disable” feature in the Profile Dashboard shown below:

I would like to deactivate or delete my account. How can I go about that?
To deactivate or delete your account on TalkToMe.com, please email talkersupport@talktome.com with your request.
If you just want to hide your profiles, but keep your account active on the site, you can do so by logging into your account, going to your dashboard, select your profile and click the “disable” button in the top right.
You can enable and disable your profiles as often as you would like.
My bank account information was incorrect, what do I do?
As soon as you realize that your Payout Information is incorrect, please complete and return this document to talkersupport@talktome.com or via fax (1-215-418-2619) so that we can assist you with updating your information.
In order to allow adequate time to process your request, please complete and return the form as soon as possible.
In addition, please list any payouts that have been processed with the incorrect information that you have not yet received.
Prohibited Terms
Below is the current list of bad words that are not allowed to be used on the site in any written format. This list is subject to change without notice, so please bookmark and refer to it as often as needed. This list is also not comprehensive, and we reserve the right to reject additional content and words that are not included in this list at any time.
Disallowed Words/phrases:
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abduct, abducted, abducting, abductor, abduction
alcohol
Bestiality
blood
brown shower, brown showers
brutal, brutality, brutally
chloro, Chloroform, chloroformed, chloroforms
coerced
Drugged, drugs
Fag, faggot *we currently allow for the use of these words on TTM/Cougars/TTMM/HC.com
feces
fisting
force, forced, forces, forcibly, forcing (in context of illustrating non-consent. “Force” is ok as a noun)
golden shower, golden showers
gunpoint
hostage, hostages
hypnosis, hypnotize, hypnotized, hypnotizes
incest, incestuous
infantilism
intox, intoxication
Kidnap, kidnapped, kidnapping
knifepoint
knock-out, knocked out, knocked-out
Lolita
Mind Control
Necrophilia
N*gger (racial slur)
nonconsent, nonconsensual, nonconsenting
pedo, pedophile, pedophilia
pee, peed, peeing
poop, pooped, pooping
potty, potty play, potty talk, potty training
rape, raped, raping, rapist (“wallet rape” is NOT ok*)
rough sex
Scat
Skype
Sleeping (in context with non-consensual fondling or sex)
Teen, teenage, teenager
Therapy, /Therapist
Toilet
torment, tormented, tormenting
torture, tortured, torturing, torturous
unconscious
underage
unwilling
urine
violates, violation
violence, violent, violently
Vomit, vomited, vomiting
There was a call recently and I don’t see the money I should have earned from it!
Occasionally there is a delay in the earnings from a call posting into your “Earnings Summary.” We are aware of the issue and are working on getting it corrected.
You are always welcome to email talkersupport@talktome.com about any missed earnings, but we suggest that you wait until the earnings are missing for over 24 hours (or one complete business day if this occurs over a weekend) before contacting support. Any concerns about incorrectly posted earnings will be addressed immediately.
What is the Direct Connect Program?
Direct Connect connects you to Callers who are not yet familiar with TalkToMe.com, meaning you can receive calls that do not originate on our site. This option offers Callers a direct connection to TalkToMe.com Talkers for $0.99 per minute.
The talker will receive their normal commission on the $0.99 per minute billed for Direct Connect calls.
When you connect to a Direct Connect Caller, you can refer them to your Profile on TalkToMe.com to purchase your Galleries, view your Public Photos, leave you a Bonus, or call you back directly in the future if they want to reach you again. If they do, you will then be paid at your normal listing rate.
To enable Direct Connect, choose “Programs” from the Main Menu.
How to access TalkToMe.com’s Direct Connect Program.
What should I do if I get a Caller who I think is underage?
If you believe a Caller is underage, please disconnect the call and send an email to talkersupport@talktome.com with the Caller’s username and why you believe they are underage.
What types of files can I attach to a Message?
You can attach image or .mp3/.mp4 files as well as record voice/audio greetings through the in-site messaging system.
If you want to attach an image/multimedia file that has previously been approved for your account, the attachment will be sent immediately; if you attach a new file, the attachment will have to be approved before the Caller can see it.
What types of files can I attach to a Sext?
You can Sext any file that your phone allows to be attached to a text message, and set your own price for these bonus materials.
When do I get my Payout?
TalkToMe.com processes Payouts every week on Wednesday.
Payouts are processed for all earnings accumulated before 4 AM Eastern time Wednesday morning.
Here are a few details regarding each available Payout Method:
ACH/Direct Deposit
- USA Bank Account Only
- Requires valid SSN/Tax ID
- Will appear on your statement as TLOR HOLDINGS LL PAYROLL
- $50 Minimum Payout
- If you select Direct Deposit as your payout option, you should expect to see the payment reflected in your account on Friday or Saturday, though it can take an extra day or two to arrive if there is a holiday or any unforeseen technical issue.
Check
- USA & Canada Only
- $50 Minimum Payout
- $2 fee per check
- Delivery of checks depends on the postal mail system. So, we are unable to open an investigation for your missing payment prior to 10 business days from the original payout date.
- All non-cashed checks will automatically void at 6 months. There is a fee of $30. The remaining amount (if any) of the payout will be returned to your account.
SEPA
- EU (European Union) only
- $100 USD Minimum Payout
- Payout will process in EURO
Paxum
- All other areas (excluding areas of the US, Canada and the EU)
- $100 Min Payout
- $2 fee per Paxum payout sent
- You should expect to see the payment reflected in your Paxum account in 1-2 business days.
Why am I no longer in the Direct Connect Program?
Enrolling in the Direct Connect Program requires that you only make yourself available to take calls when you will be able to answer incoming calls from TalkToMe.com. If you have too many missed calls on the Direct Connect Program, you will be un-enrolled.
If you are no longer enrolled and you believe this is in error, please email TalkerSupport.
Why is my Profile not approved yet?
Before your Profile(s) go through the approval process, your Private Account Information and phone number must be verified. Your Payout Information must be set up as well.
Once you complete all three of these steps, your Profile will go through the approval process to be live on the site and begin receiving calls.
Please Note: All new accounts may be subject to a Phone Call for verification before final approval.
Why were my Gallery Cover Photos rejected?
While you can have naked images within a Private Gallery, the Gallery Cover Photo must not contain any nudity. All publicly viewable images on our site may not contain any nipples or genitals.
To correct the issue, you must delete the gallery with the rejected Cover Photo and create a new Gallery.
Will a Caller hear my personal voicemail if I don’t answer the phone?
When you receive a call from TalkToMe.com, the number on your caller ID will be 1-800-825-5266 (1-800-TalkToMe). When you answer a call, you are required to press “1” to connect to the Caller.
If your voicemail picks up, you will not have pressed “1” to accept the call, and they will never be connected to you. If you do not answer the phone, the caller will not receive your personal voicemail.
*Note: There may be a chance you receive a voicemail with the “Hello” message from our system with the preamble that you are receiving a call.
While we understand there are sudden circumstances that may require you to miss a call from our system, we ask that you please be considerate to our Callers and make sure you are only marked as available during times that you will be able to answer the phone call. Talkers are required to remain under a certain percentage of missed calls to keep an active account.
Will I get in trouble for ending a call with a Caller who wants to talk about something I’m not comfortable with?
If you are uncomfortable with what a Caller is discussing with you on TalkToMe.com, you can terminate the call as you see fit. You will not be held accountable for the ended call, and we encourage you to email TalkerSupport with any complaints and/or if you feel you need to discuss the conversation.
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